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Old 08-21-2015, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted by SayAlt
With his wife having a variety of personality and substance abuse issues, it's a simple matter of getting 100% custody of the kids in a divorce, no matter what state they reside in. If he can't divorce her with 100% custody, he is an idiot (for being a cheater and giving her the possibility of getting custody) and his lawyer is awful.
Now you're just making stuff up to justify your rather narrow point of view. Nobody who knows him and his situation would blame him. No point in arguing details since you don't know anything about it.

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I have, however, been cheated on.
I wonder why? Ever do a little introspection and try to figure that out? Maybe there was a reason...there usually is, unless you just had the bad judgement to get involved with someone who has a polar-opposite outlook on promiscuity.

You're letting your past bad experience color your outlook on this subject. Let it go, you'll be better off.
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Old 08-21-2015, 12:15 PM
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Dude whatever your "buddy" needs to tell himself in order to justify breaking his vows is between him and whatever higher power he swore his oath to. Doesn't make it right to break it. As far as the website goes, you pay your nickel, you take your chances; only an idiot would trust someone who is in business to help you cheat someone.
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Old 08-21-2015, 04:29 PM
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Dude whatever your "buddy" needs to tell himself in order to justify breaking his vows is between him and whatever higher power he swore his oath to. Doesn't make it right to break it.
He's in his own purgatory for sure. I don't know the deets of the affair (only that there is one) but I do know this guy has had the patience of a saint over the years dealing with his wife's BS, and always putting the kid's welfare first. She used to make good money, but now just sits home. If he had punched early when the kids were tiny the alimony would have been low or zero. Now he's going to be permanently hosed money-wise after the kids are grown and he pulls chocks...but he's still hanging in there.

Having watched all that play out I just tend to suspect that not all cheaters are created equal. I'm 100% certain the wife would (or has) cheat if she could someone find interested.


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Old 08-21-2015, 06:38 PM
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I don't. Divorce your spouse if you can't be faithful and want to pursue other love interests. The family - and especially the kids - don't deserve what a cheater is doing to their own family.
Blah, blah, blah. It would be nice if people minded their own *******ed business instead of being so obsessed with what others are doing.

The only one worthy of judging someone is God- and if you don't believe in a God, you certainly shouldn't be judging what someone does with their private business...
Just sayin'
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Old 08-21-2015, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted by klondike
The only one worthy of judging someone is God-
Just sayin'
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Old 08-22-2015, 03:55 AM
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So there is no right and wrong and only God can judge us applies to all behavior our just behaviors you approve of? And if you don't believe in God then anything goes accept judging others? Just curious.
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So there is no right and wrong and only God can judge us applies to all behavior our just behaviors you approve of? And if you don't believe in God then anything goes accept judging others? Just curious.
Who's to say what's "right or wrong"?

I'm supposed to believe that you've never lied, never cheated, never stolen anything(ANYthing), never broke a law(no matter how petty),
Etc.
I happen to agree that adultery is bad news, but I don't judge someone just because they are engaging in it.

The point is, we as mortals don't get to pick and choose which crap is acceptable and what isn't- or judge anyone else's choices.

Your turn...Go
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Hey I am better than you I don't judge ISIS when they take 10 year old sex slaves and chop the heads off their 12 year old brothers.

I can't stand people who are judgemental about making judgements.

Back to you.
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Mod Note:

If there ever was a thread on APC that touched on almost every topic that violates the old and new Terms of Use and Forum Rules, this is it!

Well done!

Just hope none of you used the AM site.

Addendum: The OP, N9373M, first posted this the morning of the day he passed away. I'm pretty sure Chris did not mean for his thread to derail in such a manner.

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