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#3461
suck it up just a bit during the first flight and make some headway with some thoughtful inquiries about who your flying with during cruise.........It's a better strategy than playing the hard line "you can't push me around" attitude that will make for a long trip. Read the book "how to win friends and influence people".
I'm not saying to play hard ball with this guy and get into an argument or anything that could compromise safety. But if the other guy is being a douche bag and you just let it "slide" thinking you're the "bigger man," then you just let him walk all over you and have nothing to show for it other than your own anger and remorse. Man up, call him out and speak your mind, these guys have to learn that they can't get away with their behavior.
/rant
#3462
Gets Weekends Off
Joined APC: Jul 2008
Position: A320 CA
Posts: 163
#3463
#3465
Try this and watch the response.
I wish I could have video'd some of the looks and responses I have received.
I am sure I will be called on the carpet for this someday.
#3466
Gets Weekends Off
Joined APC: Jan 2008
Position: 319/320/321...whatever it takes.
Posts: 492
Who was the tool that decided to let APC use random green hyperlinks about every 20 words? They don't even go with the words that describe them. Now it takes forever to read a post because I'm so curious as to what it will say next
#3467
OK, I'll bite. Who would want to "win" the friendship of or "sway" the influence of a douche bag pilot in the first place? Pretending to be his friend just to make things more bearable makes it even worse. Life is too short to suck up to these guys like some soulless sycophant. If you're doing it to "further your career," ask yourself if you really think such a douche bag is liked by other people out there in the industry?
I'm not saying to play hard ball with this guy and get into an argument or anything that could compromise safety. But if the other guy is being a douche bag and you just let it "slide" thinking you're the "bigger man," then you just let him walk all over you and have nothing to show for it other than your own anger and remorse. Man up, call him out and speak your mind, these guys have to learn that they can't get away with their behavior.
/rant
I'm not saying to play hard ball with this guy and get into an argument or anything that could compromise safety. But if the other guy is being a douche bag and you just let it "slide" thinking you're the "bigger man," then you just let him walk all over you and have nothing to show for it other than your own anger and remorse. Man up, call him out and speak your mind, these guys have to learn that they can't get away with their behavior.
/rant
My point is, there is only one captain, and if he is being a jackass then speak up. Be tactful. But most won't, and sit and stew about it on an anonymous message board. But that won't help your cause. By all means, if there is a safety of flight issue, be professional, proactive, and speak up. But if its merely a personality issue, or you think you'd like things different, well thats just groovy -- too bad. If things get really unprofessional, then take it to pro-stans or deal with it like a man. That's your job.
#3468
Not meant to be demeaning to the captain's authority, but I think we can all agree there's some out there that aren't the brightest crayons.
#3469
At the two airlines I worked at, both had upgrade pass rates of 98%.
#3470
Gets Weekends Off
Joined APC: Aug 2010
Posts: 107
As my wife dropped me off for a trip near the entrance to work, the TSA agent who approached me (shaking and nervous for some odd reason) and stood inches from my face asking me what time it was....to which I replied, "probably close to the time you have on your wrist watch, have a nice day". I guess I should also nominate myself for the response I gave the TSA agent.
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