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Old 10-16-2013, 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted by alfaromeo
I hope this doesn't drag people down, but sometimes writing things down makes me feel better.

Lost a daughter three years ago. The good memories stay, the bad times fade, and the pain slowly goes away. Stay busy and cherish the support from your family and friends.
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Old 10-16-2013, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted by alfaromeo
I saw your post and wanted to thank you all of the APC people for your kind words over the last week. Needless to say, this has been the worst week of my life. Both Delta Air Lines and ALPA have done everything you would expect and more. I feel like I have three support groups, my family, my Delta family, and my ALPA family and they all have kept me able to get up in the morning.

One of the hardest moments was the juxtaposition of cost and value. She just bought a house 4 months ago and while she was saving up for it she was driving my old car. Since she was a little messy, I was cleaning up her car before giving it to charity. I found this old sweater that she wore just about every day. I can picture her now wearing that sweater at the front door (it is glass) stopping over after work. It was from Old Navy and probably cost $25 brand new and was now worth about $1.50 at a yard sale.

So I have a car still worth thousands, despite it's age, and a sweater with no monetary worth at all. Guess which one I am giving away and which one I will have until the day I die.

The bottom line is I am shaky. Most people that have worked with me know that the tougher things got the tougher and meaner I got. Now I just feel off balance and trying to get my feet back. You could do or say anything to me and it just rolls off my back, but my daughter, that has knocked me like nothing else.

I hope this doesn't drag people down, but sometimes writing things down makes me feel better.
God bless you. Not much consolation I'm sure, but you and the unimaginable loss of your girl have sure put things into perspective for many of us and our thoughts are with you.
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Old 10-16-2013, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted by alfaromeo
I saw your post and wanted to thank you all of the APC people for your kind words over the last week. Needless to say, this has been the worst week of my life. Both Delta Air Lines and ALPA have done everything you would expect and more. I feel like I have three support groups, my family, my Delta family, and my ALPA family and they all have kept me able to get up in the morning.

One of the hardest moments was the juxtaposition of cost and value. She just bought a house 4 months ago and while she was saving up for it she was driving my old car. Since she was a little messy, I was cleaning up her car before giving it to charity. I found this old sweater that she wore just about every day. I can picture her now wearing that sweater at the front door (it is glass) stopping over after work. It was from Old Navy and probably cost $25 brand new and was now worth about $1.50 at a yard sale.

So I have a car still worth thousands, despite it's age, and a sweater with no monetary worth at all. Guess which one I am giving away and which one I will have until the day I die.

The bottom line is I am shaky. Most people that have worked with me know that the tougher things got the tougher and meaner I got. Now I just feel off balance and trying to get my feet back. You could do or say anything to me and it just rolls off my back, but my daughter, that has knocked me like nothing else.

I hope this doesn't drag people down, but sometimes writing things down makes me feel better.
I don't know Alfa, I didn't know his daughter. But I know Delta pilots, and Delta employees so maybe that's why I'm really struck by what you and your family have lost. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you. Your previous post and this one keep making me think what it would be like to lose my daughter and other than saying it my mind won't let me go any further with the thought because it's unthinkable. The suddenness of it...the shock...the loss of someone so dear who you watched grow up. I doubt you'll take me up on this, but I am completely sincere when I say if there is anything I or my family can do for you during this time please do not hesitate to let us know. Maybe you live in the area...I doubt it, but if you did and I could have helped and not offered my assistance I wouldn't feel very good about that. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Think of all the good times and that she wouldn't want you to not be happy again because of this tragedy.

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Old 10-16-2013, 10:54 AM
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Alfa, One of my best friends lost his son this summer and his experience with DALPA and the company were similar to yours, they were of immense help. You have a long journey, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Old 10-16-2013, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted by alfaromeo
I saw your post and wanted to thank you all of the APC people for your kind words over the last week. Needless to say, this has been the worst week of my life. Both Delta Air Lines and ALPA have done everything you would expect and more. I feel like I have three support groups, my family, my Delta family, and my ALPA family and they all have kept me able to get up in the morning.

One of the hardest moments was the juxtaposition of cost and value. She just bought a house 4 months ago and while she was saving up for it she was driving my old car. Since she was a little messy, I was cleaning up her car before giving it to charity. I found this old sweater that she wore just about every day. I can picture her now wearing that sweater at the front door (it is glass) stopping over after work. It was from Old Navy and probably cost $25 brand new and was now worth about $1.50 at a yard sale.

So I have a car still worth thousands, despite it's age, and a sweater with no monetary worth at all. Guess which one I am giving away and which one I will have until the day I die.

The bottom line is I am shaky. Most people that have worked with me know that the tougher things got the tougher and meaner I got. Now I just feel off balance and trying to get my feet back. You could do or say anything to me and it just rolls off my back, but my daughter, that has knocked me like nothing else.

I hope this doesn't drag people down, but sometimes writing things down makes me feel better.


I wish there was a succinct way to express how I feel on the inside for you. You are living out my worst nightmare many times over and words just fail to express my sympathy.

But I guess where words fail on my end, I hope they do help on your end. Feel free to write as often as you want as much as you want. We'll listen Alfa.

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Old 10-16-2013, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by alfaromeo
I saw your post and wanted to thank you all of the APC people for your kind words over the last week. Needless to say, this has been the worst week of my life. Both Delta Air Lines and ALPA have done everything you would expect and more. I feel like I have three support groups, my family, my Delta family, and my ALPA family and they all have kept me able to get up in the morning.

One of the hardest moments was the juxtaposition of cost and value. She just bought a house 4 months ago and while she was saving up for it she was driving my old car. Since she was a little messy, I was cleaning up her car before giving it to charity. I found this old sweater that she wore just about every day. I can picture her now wearing that sweater at the front door (it is glass) stopping over after work. It was from Old Navy and probably cost $25 brand new and was now worth about $1.50 at a yard sale.

So I have a car still worth thousands, despite it's age, and a sweater with no monetary worth at all. Guess which one I am giving away and which one I will have until the day I die.

The bottom line is I am shaky. Most people that have worked with me know that the tougher things got the tougher and meaner I got. Now I just feel off balance and trying to get my feet back. You could do or say anything to me and it just rolls off my back, but my daughter, that has knocked me like nothing else.

I hope this doesn't drag people down, but sometimes writing things down makes me feel better.
God Bless you Alfa. You'll be reunited with her one day. Until then, we're here for you.
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Old 10-16-2013, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Ftrooppilot
Lost a daughter three years ago. The good memories stay, the bad times fade, and the pain slowly goes away. Stay busy and cherish the support from your family and friends.
I have four daughters. The thought of losing one of them scares me to death. I can't even imagine how hard it must be to deal with such a loss. You and Alfa have my best wishes.
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Old 10-16-2013, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted by alfaromeo
I saw your post and wanted to thank you all of the APC people for your kind words over the last week. Needless to say, this has been the worst week of my life. Both Delta Air Lines and ALPA have done everything you would expect and more. I feel like I have three support groups, my family, my Delta family, and my ALPA family and they all have kept me able to get up in the morning.

One of the hardest moments was the juxtaposition of cost and value. She just bought a house 4 months ago and while she was saving up for it she was driving my old car. Since she was a little messy, I was cleaning up her car before giving it to charity. I found this old sweater that she wore just about every day. I can picture her now wearing that sweater at the front door (it is glass) stopping over after work. It was from Old Navy and probably cost $25 brand new and was now worth about $1.50 at a yard sale.

So I have a car still worth thousands, despite it's age, and a sweater with no monetary worth at all. Guess which one I am giving away and which one I will have until the day I die.

The bottom line is I am shaky. Most people that have worked with me know that the tougher things got the tougher and meaner I got. Now I just feel off balance and trying to get my feet back. You could do or say anything to me and it just rolls off my back, but my daughter, that has knocked me like nothing else.

I hope this doesn't drag people down, but sometimes writing things down makes me feel better.
Do not hesitate to contact Employee Assistance. They can refer you to a grief counselor. You will find it helpful beyond measure. If not today, next week. It will help.
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Old 10-16-2013, 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted by forgot to bid

I wish there was a succinct way to express how I feel on the inside for you. You are living out my worst nightmare many times over and words just fail to express my sympathy.

But I guess where words fail on my end, I hope they do help on your end. Feel free to write as often as you want as much as you want. We'll listen Alfa.

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Prayers to you and your family, alfa.
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Old 10-16-2013, 03:05 PM
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All I can say is hang in there Alfa as best you can.
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